Michel Lang, Fiona McAuslan and Peter Nicholson have published Divorce and Separation: A Practical Guide to Making Smart Decisions https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01N30NRV4/
Divorce and Separation is based on three key ideas:
(1) If you have decided to separate and divorce, you are the best ones to know what’s best for your family which means that you should be in charge of making the decisions. If you can work together, then your decisions will be better, longer lasting, and more effective. No one knows your family better than you.
(2) If you are thinking about or have decided to divorce, you do not need pre-packaged solutions, or someone controlling your decisions. You need information, a guide to help you understand that information and help you identify the topics to be discussed. Then, you can make your own decisions.
(3) Even in the confusion and bitterness of separation and divorce, you are capable of acting responsibly and wisely. You may be worried and frustrated, but you are not weak and powerless. You are capable thinking about choices, deciding when to seek professional advice, and making smart decisions. Divorce and Separation supports and encourages couples to act in their own interest.
There is no road map to a successful divorce—don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Your family is unique, your needs are unique, and the solutions must be unique. We wrote Divorce and Separation to show couples how to take control of the decisions they are facing.
The authors have launched an associated web site, Divorce Book Florida, http://www.divorcebookflorida.com The site includes information about the book and the three authors, and most importantly a continually updated Tool Box—a list of resources, forms and web sites to help couples manage their separation and divorce.